What is MOMMAS ?
MOMMAS is a home for young mothers aged 17 to 21 years
and their babies. For approximately two years, the young mothers
at MOMMAS house continue education or vocational experience interrupted
by pregnancy. With guidance and direction, the young mothers can
learn to support themselves and their children independently.
Why is MOMMAS house needed?
Long Island has a high incidence of teenage pregnancy.
Birthright of Nassau/Suffolk, in counseling crisis pregnancies
for nearly twenty years, noted an alarming fact: Many young pregnant
women, unwilling to part with their children through adoption
placement, had no place to which they could bring their baby home
to.
Some of the young mothers were homeless-- living in cars, sacking
out in dives, surviving in temporary situations. A few had been
homeless for a long time, while others had been thrown out of
their home when their parents learned they were pregnant.
Many other young mothers lived with parents who would not let
them return with a baby, or the young mothers were part of dysfunctional
homes considered dangerous for an infant. The infants of all these
young mothers in crisis often became victims of child abuse and
neglect. Moreover, the young mothers themselves would become isolated
and hopeless, trapped into a life of dependency upon public assistance.
What is Our Vision for MOMMAS House?
MOMMAS House is dedicated to ensuring that any pregnant
young woman on Long Island can have a realistic opportunity to
choose life for her child even in the most difficult of circumstances.
MOMMAS can make a difference for teenage mothers abandoned by
their families, having no place to take their babies other than
a seedy rooming house and no prospects other than being chained
to welfare. Young mothers, whose choice of life for their child
is at odds with a society which too often promotes death, now
have a place to take their baby home.
When former Vice President Dan Quayle visited MOMMAS House in
1990, he observed: "What struck me most about MOMMAS House
is the love and care that these young women and their children
receive from director, Pat Shea, and the staff. It's true it's
difficult to raise a child alone, and it's true that society puts
a lot of pressure on pregnant teenagers to have an abortion. It's
important that pregnant teens be provided with a real choice and
a real alternative to having an abortion."
What Program Is Offered to Young Mothers
at MOMMAS House?
During the first six weeks after the baby is born, each
young mother is encouraged to bond with her infant. Vocational
counseling and other counseling are provided as needed. After
the first six weeks, the young mother must proceed with vocational
or educational goals which are to be accomplished during her residency.
During their year at MOMMAS House, the young mothers are afforded
a supportive environment. Parenting classes instruct the young
mothers in proper infant care, thereby helping to minimize neglect
often associated with teenaged motherhood. Tutoring and other
classes are offered as needs become apparent. As they learn the
practical skills needed to be a working parent, they must save
money in preparation for the day they leave MOMMAS House.
How Did MOMMAS House Get Started?
A group of volunteers from Birthright of Nassau/Suffolk, led by John
Connell and Patricia Shea, had long been working on the planning of this program,
when it finally came to fruition in 1986. The first MOMMAS house was opened
in Wantagh because of the generosity of Joe Haley, a born-again Christian who
felt a real need to help. After three years, the parish of Our Lady of Lourdes
Catholic Church in Malverne offered the use of an abandoned building on their
property. The parish and village community of Malverne refurbished this lovely
old house into a beautiful home and the program moved into this location.
In 1994, St. Paul the Apostle Catholic Church in Brookville offered
the use of a building that was formerly a convent. As a result
of their kindness, the second MOMMAS
house
was opened in a truly beautiful setting.
A third MOMMAS house opened in the former Rectory of St. Rocco's Church in Glen Cove.
In 2006, our St. Paul's home was moved to a new site in Jericho.
What Are the Goals of MOMMAS?
MOMMAS House has five basic goals:
1. Provide young mothers age 17 to 21 years old with a sheltered atmosphere
where responsibility is stressed, yet support is available.
2. Prevent child abuse by alleviating the isolation of the young mother.
3. Avoid child neglect by teaching parenting and child care.
4. Offer a stable environment where young mothers can be nurtured and encouraged
to obtain training and schooling.
5. Assist the young mother in establishing a secure job in order to become financially
stable and not be dependent on a welfare allotment.
How Is the Program at MOMMAS House Supported?
The Maternity and Early Childhood Foundation pays a portion of the salaries
of the house managers and day care providers. The young mothers must contribute
toward their room and board in accordance with their means. Some will receive
public assistance and some will work. All other support is provided by donations
and the assistance of volunteers.
What Can You Do to Help?
If you believe in our program, we welcome volunteers and donations. We
need volunteers for driving, clerical work, infant care, relief of house managers,
house maintenance, tutoring, teaching self-improvement classes and counseling.
We need donations!
MOMMA'S Inc. is a not-for -profit corporation organized in the State of
New York and it has been granted a tax exemption under 28 U.S.C. Sec. 501(a).
ALL DONATIONS ARE TAX DEDUCTIBLE. A copy of financial report can be obtained
from Charities Registration.
MOMMAS Executive Program Director
Patricia Shea
MOMMAS Board of Directors
Thomas Lilly, Esq., President
Mary McCaffrey, Vice President
Mary Gilroy-Doohan, M.D.,
Secretary
Pat Fitzgerald,
Treasurer
Hilary Becker
Joseph Bottner, MD
Joan Phillips
Joan Durso Serra
MOMMAS Board of Honorary Trustees
Rita Castagna
Rev. Edwin Collins
Hon. Denis Dillon
Hon. Dorothy Goosby
Hon. Peter King
Msgr. James Lisante
Patti McDonald
P.O. Steven McDonald
Patricia Neal
Liz O'Connor
Noreen VonZwehll